I was born on Mother's Day May 9, 1936, to Lum
and Katie Reeves in Moss Point, MS. I was the youngest
child by ten years and spoiled by everyone. Thus, began
my journey. Kindergarten came at Charlotte Hyatt
Elementary. There I met Eunice Faye, Nita, Rena,
Shirley G., Peggy, Ralph, Gary, and Terry. They became
my "forever friends".
In Jr. high school I became a
cheerleader and I grew to love football. I even played
on a girl’s team along with softball and basketball.
There weren't enough days to do all the things at school and
in town. Moss Point was a wonderful town to grow up
in the 50's. There were wiener roasts, pallet parties,
swimming, and riding in a boat in the summer. And
there was dancing. Everybody danced on Friday night at
the community house.
In high school I was elected Miss MPHS,
most popular girl, most versatile girl, head cheerleader and
editor of the school newspaper. At graduation I won
the school spirit medal and citizenship award.
I wanted to go to MS Southern but my
father had been sick and there was no money. My mother
called Mr. Khayat (who could always help). He took me
to Perk and introduced me to Mr. J.J. Hayden who gave me a
cheerleader scholarship and made me assistant to the P.E.
teacher. As you can see, cheerleading was a big part of
my life. It gave me many opportunities. I always
said I couldn't love a place as much as I did Moss Point,
but Perk ran a close second.
While at Perk I was elected Miss PJC,
homecoming queen, head cheerleader, and president of several
clubs. Although there wasn't a lot of money, my parents
and siblings saw that I had every opportunity. Nobody
could have asked for a better family.
In 1955 I and three of my girlfriends
went to Washington D.C. to work. There was no trouble
getting a job so I worked for Alcoa. I saw my first
ticket-tape machine and was mesmerized by it.
We did more site seeing than
working. The government takes a lot of holidays!
We sat on the steps of the capitol and listened to the
service bands. It was a great adventure. In
September we came back to Perk for our second year.
At Perk I met a young man named Donald
Sanders. We graduated on Thursday night and got married on Sunday. We then went to Endicott, NY for
Donald to go to IBM school. He worked for them in New
Orleans and then we moved back to Gulfport for Donald to
work for MS Power. We had four children. Dona,
Laurie, Shelly, and Kent.
Donald built our house in 1962 and It
was a happy time. Then in October 1966 Donald passed away.
Now came the hard part of the
journey. There was so much to do and so much to
learn. As the years went by things got easier.
The children and I had a lot of fun going places and doing
things. They were especially thrilled to see Elvis
Presley several times. They have grown in to
wonderful, hard working, church going, kind, helpful
adults. They were there to take care of their mother
and are my greatest pride and joy.
I worked for the Harrison County School
System for 25 years. I was active in PTA, church
activities at New Hope Baptist Church, and the Perk Alumni
Association. At homecoming in 2016 I was
inducted into the Bulldog Hall of Honor.
Preceding our mother in death is her
husband Donald,parents Lum and Kate Reeves, siblings
Jack Reeves, Boots Baxter, and Bob Reeves. Most
recently she lost her oldest child Dona Elise (Butch).
Survivors are her children Laurie
(David), Shelly (Sid), and Kent.Her grandchildren Ashleigh Walli,
Christopher Richmond, Wil Richmond, David Montana, Jr.,
Katie Montana, Abraham Toncrey, Jason Rice, Ashley Rice,
Elise Rice, Kristen Fox, T.J. Fox, and Kari Fox and twelve
great grandchildren.
Cursing Porficia. My journey is over.
The family would like to thank her family at Seashore Assisted Living Facility and the staff at Canon Hospice for their love and support.In lieu of flowers, the family request donations be made to: MGCCC Foundation, For: Shirley Reeves Sanders, Mail checks to: MGCCC Foundation, P.O. Box 99, Perkinston, MS. 39577.
The visitation will be held Saturday, March 16, 2019 from 3:00 until 5:00 P.M. at Bradford-O’Keefe Funeral Home, 15th Street, Gulfport. There will be a private family graveside service.